Dating Program of Three: Potential Suitor Checklist

Posted on May 4, 2010

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In my last post I talked about the three questions one needs to ask when one is deciding whether or not a potential suitor can make it into the Dating Program of Three. I promised you a more elaborate checklist to help you answer each of those three questions.

Here’s how to use the checklist: Each question must have a certain number of its subquestions answered with a “yes” in order for you to be able to answer “YES” for the entire question (the requirements are stated at the end of each checklist). You must be able to answer a complete “yes” for each question in order to consider the suitor a contender for your Dating Program of Three.

Question 1: Is he/she crazy about me?

-Is he/she eager to see me?

-Is he/she reluctant to leave me?

-Is he/she interested in me and my life?

-Does he/she want to be helpful?

-Is he/she verbally and physically affectionate?

-Does he/she seem physically attracted to me?

-Does he/she act like I am special to him/her?

-Is he/she willing to hang in there as I work through the Program of Three?

*You should be able to answer YES to FOUR or more of the above questions in order to answer YES for the entire question.

Question 2: Is he/she willing to grow?

-Does he/she take suggestions or advice?

-Is he/she self-reflective?

-Is he/she willing to go to therapy or life coaching?

-Does he/she take classes that promote personal growth?

-Does he/she meditate or pray?

-Is/was he/she in a 12-step program or women or men’s group?

*You should be able to answer YES to TWO or more of the above questions in order to answer YES for the entire question.

Question 3: Is he/she meeting the Basics?

Is he/she a good person? Reliable, tells the truth, cares about others?

-Does he/she want a real, committed relationship?

-Is he/she willing to have children if I want them?

-Is he/she successful? Does he/she have a solid income?

-Is he/she a member of my religious faith or does he/she seem to share my values?

-Is he/she NOT in a relationship with anyone else?

-Does he/she come from a stable family or origin?

-Is he/she geographically desirable?

*You should be able to answer YES to FOUR or more of the above questions in order to answer YES for the entire question.

If (and ONLY IF) you are able to answer “yes” to these three questions, then you have found yourself a possible person for your Dating Program of Three. If you found these checklists confusing and need some clarification, email me at gabrielle@gabriellebrooke.com and I’ll be happy to answer any questions you may have.

Wondering where to even find enough men to put through this application progress? Next post I’ll talk more about ways you can maximize your dating potential.

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