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Complications

September 30, 2012

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Women have a tendency to complicate things by analyzing, making excuses, and developing myriad complex theories.  In the world of relationships, things are actually quite simple which can make an intellectually-driven woman feel  intimidated. If things are simple, she will have to accept a reality she may not want to accept.    Advertisements

The bad relationship ends…

September 29, 2012

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…and inevitably someone in your friend circle or your family can’t get over it. Maybe this person is married and was hoping you were going to join the ranks of the married people. Maybe they romanticized what you had and when it ended, they decided they didn’t want to face a certain reality. Maybe they […]

You know what’s irrational?

September 28, 2012

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  Arguing with reality. Each time you start a conflict with the way things are, you’re going to end up angry or hurt or confused or burdened.  Acceptance doesn’t mean passive inaction. Acceptance means that you can start to change in the real world.   

Kick A.S.S. Coaching. In a nutshell.

September 27, 2012

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Use absolutely everything that  hurts you, scares you, confuses you, disappoints you, angers you, annoys you, frustrates you,  worries you, saddens you and exhausts you to drive yourself, your soul and your spirit deep inside of you in an effort to remember and re-engage your own truth. Use every sickness, every troubled relationship, every economic […]

Your Billboard

September 26, 2012

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I read a fashion/style book by Tim Gunn several months ago. He said that everything you wear is like your own personal advertisement. When you leave the house in dirty sweats and unwashed hair you advertise: “Tired, harried woman who doesn’t care about her appearance.” Imagine, Gunn says, if we knew our outfits were going […]

Meaning

September 25, 2012

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The biggest mind-blowing, eye-opening life realization is that we actually assign meaning to what happens to us. And the meanings we assign are always a choice. It’s usually not what happens to us that hurts us but rather the meanings we assign.  He didn’t call me back is a fact. He didn’t call me back […]

The Order

September 24, 2012

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In coaching, we have to start somewhere. So we often start with your thoughts. Your thoughts inspire both your emotions and your sense of logic and these inspire your actions. Your actions determine what happens in your life. And what happens in your life determines the quality of your life.   Trying to focus on […]