Boundaries and the Bitch

Posted on October 8, 2012

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Many women think that setting boundaries is bitchy. They equate standing up for themselves and their boundaries with being a bitch. So when someone crosses one of their boundaries, rather than let the other know that the line has been crossed, they do things like: 

1. Talk about the other person behind his/her back

or

2. Engage in passive-aggressive actions towards the other person. 

Now ask yourself honestly, what’s more bitchy? Telling someone you won’t tolerate their behavior and opening up the lines of communication to discuss expectations in the relationship or participating in 1 and 2? 

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