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Obstacles or Opportunities?

May 27, 2011


The process of dating, (and dating and then dating some more) can wear on a person. After several unsuccessful relationships, after a few False Alarms, after being invited to yet another wedding (where you will not be able to extend the ‘And Guest’ invitation), it can be easy to slip into a state of self-doubt […]

If I had a man…

May 11, 2010


We’re going to play a little game. I want you to answer this statement by filling in the blank: If I had a man, _________________________________. If you had a man or a boyfriend or a husband or a great relationship (whatever it is you really want) how do you think your life would be different? […]

weekly chocolate

May 7, 2010


Autobiography by Portia Nelson Chapter One I walk down the street. There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. I fall in. I am lost…I am helpless. It is not my fault. It takes forever to find my way out. Chapter Two I walk down the same street. There is a deep hole in the […]

Five Ways to Meet Quality Men (and NO, the club is not one of them)

May 6, 2010


The other day a friend of mine was gushing about a guy who finally asked her out. She is beyond elated-she’s had a crush on this guy forever. As she started describing how she was picturing her wedding, I stopped her mid-sentence and said what I say to all the women I love who are […]

Dating Program of Three: Potential Suitor Checklist

May 4, 2010


In my last post I talked about the three questions one needs to ask when one is deciding whether or not a potential suitor can make it into the Dating Program of Three. I promised you a more elaborate checklist to help you answer each of those three questions. Here’s how to use the checklist: […]

The Dating Program of Three

April 26, 2010


As part of my ongoing dating and relationship research, I have recently purchased Diana Kirschner’s book Love in 90 Days. First let me say that I do not agree with every piece of advice that Dr. Kirschner presents in this book.¬†However, there is something to which Dr. Kirschner advises single women to do that I […]