Browsing All posts tagged under »feeling stuck«

Problem #1: Invalidation

April 19, 2012


A coaching colleague of mine wasn’t really a big fan of The Work. Although she completely understood the process intellectually, and she witnessed a lot of changes in others who tried this tool, she kept getting stuck when she tried it on her own lizard thoughts. “I don’t get this. This seems to work for […]

Stuck on the Challenge

November 16, 2010


No one can figure her out. She’s the kind of woman who just doesn’t give clear signals. Flirty one minute, aloof the next, she’s the kind of person who cancels potential dates at the last minute and doesn’t seem to feel the need to apologize for it. He’s a hard nut to crack. He’s emotionally […]

Stuck in the Past

November 11, 2010


One of the most painful ways to get really stuck in your love life is to get stuck in the past. Maybe you once met someone who just completely captivated you or maybe you were in (what you’d consider) a fantastic relationship that is no longer. Whether short-lived or an extended affair, you just can’t […]

Stuck on the Rhetoric

November 9, 2010


“If someone shows you who they are, believe them.” -Maya Angelou The above quote is one of my favorites. You know why? Because it’s true. A person continuously shows you who they are through their actions. Not through what they tell you they believe, not through their Facebook status updates, but by the way that […]