Browsing All posts tagged under »how to deal with frenemies«

Preventing Toxic Waste

September 21, 2010


Toxic Waste. It’s what happens when you allow Frenemies and Change-Back attacks to dictate what is best for your love life. If you’ve identified Frenemies in your life, then it’s time for you to develop a plan to deal with them. Although the term ‘Frenemy’ is reminiscent of adolescent girls, the Frenemy exists in every […]

Three Types of Fremenies

September 15, 2010


How many Frenemies does it take to rain on your parade? Just one. That’s if you let ’em. But just in case you’ve got more than one frenemy, or in case you’re not sure if you’re dealing with one, below are descriptions of the three most common types. Frenemy #1: ┬áThe Hopeless Cynic Description: You […]

Enter: Frenemies

September 14, 2010


You’ve made a great, positive change in the way you do dating and relationships and you’ve gotten a Change-Back Attack from someone you assumed would be supportive. Well, now what do you do? You, dear reader, must decide who is a real friend and who is a frenemy so that you’ll know how to proceed. […]

The Change Uglies

September 3, 2010


´╗┐ In an earlier post this week, I talked about the number one reason your usual group of cheerleaders may withdrawal their support when you undertake a change. Their intent is usually not malicious-just based in fear-and I’ll be discussing ways you can deal with this resistance in future posts this month. But I would […]

Understanding the value of change

September 1, 2010


As a life coach, one of the most rewarding aspects of my job is watching clients transform their lives right in front of me. Of course, as a dating and relationship coach, one of the best things is watching clients, formerly plagued by bad past relationships, steer their lives in totally new directions and find […]