Browsing All posts tagged under »new relationships«

Let’s reframe the game…

May 18, 2013


In my last post, I discussed how both positive and negative expectations can hurt new relationships. Expecting the best out of others we don’t know that well not only sets us up for disappointment, but also shows that we can be easily exploited. Expecting the worst out of others doesn’t help either. It leads us […]

Getting Some Clarity

January 21, 2011


What do you want? No, I’m serious here. What do you really want in a relationship? How long have you spent dating people who, if you were really honest with yourself, were not the right people for you? How many times have you started a relationship because you were lonely? Or had just broken up […]

How to tame your lizard

April 20, 2010


So you’ve got a lizard. And it’s running wild and crazy. Here’s what to do when your lizard gets out of hand. If you’ve ever heard me talk about Blanche, you know about my lizard. She is such a part of my everyday, she even has her very own page on my blog. After years […]